Illusion of freedom!!!!

Illusion of freedom!!!!

Now a day’s, freedom seems to me as an illusion, we all believe somehow that we are free, we can think free, speak free and live free but we are being manipulated by so many components in this society, without even realizing that. Why not? Why don’t we see the real scenes behind the picture? Are we too naive to realize the truth? Or we in a trance or hypnotized may be, by power money, and fake hope of better life? It all sounds so cynical, what a mind, always looking for conspiracies where is none. Obviously there is no conspiracy in anything, this is the way of living, all man can born free but cannot be free, if that happens all the powerful creatures will fall, a utopia will rise and that cannot happen with the basic flaws of human nature.

We don’t have freedom because we do have fear, too much of it, if I may say so in our heart, and where is fear there can never be any kind of freedom, fear is like poison, like a plague, spreading through words, rumors, thoughts and dreams, it is too strong now. Everywhere I look I see only fear surrounding all of us like four headed hydra, we fear to talk, we fear to live, we fear to look the biggest fear is we fear the death, the common goal of human life still we fear it so much that death or the thought of dyeing controls us, we kill our morality for it, we hide our fire of freedom because of it, we live in shadows in silence because of this fear, and people who knows it use it against us in every step of our life and we surrender.

So what is this façade of freedom that we hide ourselves behind it? We should ask are we really free? Or are we dreaming of it every day? It is hard to live in a constant struggle against fear and other dark things like hatred, so we choose to live with it, we fear we hate, we are creatures or turning into the creatures of fear and hatred, before learning anything else we learn to hate base on anything we differentiate one person with another and judge them without any logical reasons. In this way how can we feel free? We think by taking other’s freedom from them we can get ours, does this work like that? True freedom lies in one’s heart it is not on sale no one can snatch it they can pretend to take it away but it is ours to have, always been ours to have, we do born with the feeling of freedom, it is not an illusion that a fire of freedom is burning inside all of our hearts, where is light there is darkness, and our darkness is growing stronger, we are being driven by fear and hatred and so in the process we are losing our sense of independence.

We born free, we have freewill we should have liberty of thinking and we should have a choice in our own life, this illusion this manipulation is going on for so long it should end now or after sometime freedom will be a myth a fairytale of a far far way land.

Future of our future!!

Future of our future!!

Every journey begins with lots of dreams, expectations and with a chance to start, to choose a road and start the journey. Most interesting part of a journey is the surprise the unexpected turns and twists in the road, we can prepare for something but can end up having completely different experience. To discover ourselves we all embarks on a journey knowingly or unknowingly which is living a full life, with lots of hope, surprises, choices, and unexpected turns and twist. Our parents can prepare for our journey ahead can protect us or guide us but journey should is ours to have. But some people never get the chance to have a full life with potential outcomes because without their full concern or even knowledge someone work as hand of god and decide the full road ahead, I am talking about child marriage, where a little girl and boy or a little girl with a full grown man bound together for rest of their lives by society or their parents, which kills the natural potential of someone’s life in the very beginning.

A child’s mind is full of promise and wonder, a child should learn play and have a healthy and normal childhood to be a full grown human or a good human who will give something to the society and have a great journey, but when a little girl get married in the age of innocence they just don’t lose their childhood but their innocence their life and even a chance to dream. Why look in the past and justify as a tradition this crime against humanity? Where I live, so many times I witnessed the teenage girls getting married without completing their education, without having a choice, many of them don’t want to do that but some of them don’t mind, but what can a immature mind can understand about the huge decision like marriage? It is not a small matter it is a life changing decision which only an adult person with life experience and knowledge can take about their own life in a proper time. But those who argue pathetically still supporting this  says, it’s the decision of the parents not the child’s to do what with the life or what not. Why we have parents, a child needs parents to live to protected by them they should act as guides and supporters and protectors not as dictators, society should not act as god and decide how a person will grow up to be, a child should be treated as a future citizen of a democratic free country and should have a full life ahead with freedom and dignity.

Marriage is a sacred relation between two people should be bounded by love, respect and trust, not by society money or power, a child can never understand the true meaning of marriage and child should not even know about them in that age, it is traumatizing and can affect them psychologically forever and they can never be the person they were born to be in this world.

Children are the future of this worlds, they are not commodities or personal properties of anyone, they should be nurtured, loved, guided to the right direction, they should learn and have a full imaginative childhood secure home to be a full grown healthy person. We all know what is right, but still we are witnessing crime against humanity every day, witnessing our future being corrupted by social norms and in the name of tradition. Children are the future, they should have a future of their own they should have their own journey on their own terms, may be guided by their elders but not dictated by anyone.

In a horror movie are we???

In a horror movie are we???

Dark times!! What is actually this dark time means? The period where is no morality, no humanity exists, even if a little part of it exist it hides in shadows, the streets are full with creature just masked, disguising as human but not even close to humanity in any sense, is that dark enough to get scared? Or still it is not sufficient darkness, every street every home is invaded by insecurity and fear, there is unspoken reign of depression everywhere, blood is getting spilled every day, whenever we turn on the TV there only news all are about death, destruction, hate and despair, people are confused, scared & lost. And fear can make people do unimaginable things; it can turn a human into a monster. And we are living in this time in these surroundings, and only safety we feel in complete ignorance. We read newspapers, listen tv news but ignore or try not to think about them, but we forget one thing, the next breaking news can be any of us, any time, that fear is enough to make us ignorant to reality.

Words are nothing if it fails to touch any mind, deeds are useless if it cannot influence the character of a person, and news are just stories if we don’t react. Action is a hard choice, to do something by coming out of the comfort zone and look fear in the eyes needs unity, needs a whole bunch of people, one in the million, a person in a crowd is not enough, power comes with number that we learnt in the dawn of civilization, but why now we don’t stand beside our fellow citizen and speak of our mind? The seeds of fear are so deep in our souls that it is very hard for us to get out of the darkness; we just think that keep the eyes close and the danger will go away, it is a bliss full ignorance of a silly infant, and a treacherous plan for a full grown man.

We read about the dark ages in books, we watch movies about good winning over evil, heroes defeating villains and story ends with justice and happiness, but life never ends, and there cannot be one or two heroes in real world to save millions of people, there is not one villain or nothing is completely black and white, it is so much unclear and confusing than stories, novels and movies. Here we are doing good or bad things or supporting them just being ourselves without thinking anything, may be just to avoid little problem we are corrupting our country bits by bits, without even realizing the bigger picture. By keeping a silence just by ignoring the evils in our own life we are defeating the heroes one by one.

The greatest thing in this world is a human mind, nothing is more powerful than that, every mind in this world is capable of doing amazing things but we like to limit ourselves we tend to surrender to the muscle power and to the lesser minds just to be safe. Now what is worth living in a real life horror movie hiding under the bed, why not just look and think and speak and try to fight our fears and get out of the shadows to our full potential. Being control by some power hungry selfish minds get scared by mindless bullies is not our destiny, the heroes are dying inside of us, and the villains are getting stronger every day, now which part of us will end the story is in our hands completely. This horror story that we are living in must end soon or we will forget about the justice and happy endings forever, with every drop of blood of innocent people we are corrupting ourselves by fear, horror movies are only fun if it ends!!!!!! 

Moving on !!!!

Moving on !!!!

To get on with life we all need to move on first, take good lesson from sucking or crazy past move on, standing still will only going to hurt, moving forward is always a good idea, always was for humans. We moved on from caves to green eco-friendly houses (still some people need to come here), stone inscription to today’s sms, mms and all kind of little chatty communicative stuffs, we get here by moving on. When we light our home in the dark by using electricity we don’t say that from thousands of years we lived in dark so why light now? Or we don’t particularly miss our days in hunting and gathering professions, though many so called brave men like to hunt for fun but not every one of us is a fanatic, some of us, but that is completely different matter, my point is to move forward we need to leave some things behind, we can take the knowledge, experience and teachings with us and we need to but we should leave behind all the confusing, misunderstands and darkness and blind beliefs behind, only a logical open mind can move forward or better to say move towards a bright future.

We all have many dark sides, we all have hidden agendas and desires and we try to fulfill them by following the rules made by individuals who were also had same faults, we just justify our hidden desires and fears by following anything blindly, most of us are scared, of doing new or something different because fear is a natural instinct that controls humans most, fear is the only thing that keeping us behind, fear of new things, fear of change, fear of society all of it is a big disease of our own societies. When we need to look in the present and do what is right and logical we tend to look back and look in the past for answers of the present questions, we already have the answers, we were in the past, that is why we are in the present now, and only present will lead us to a new future, otherwise same action will give us same result not anything new.

Moving on is the most hard thing in this universe for a person, from childhood to the old age moving on is not easy, from today to tomorrow is a scary journey sometimes, moving on from one feeling to another is very terrifying still it is the only thing that we can control, how and towards what we are moving on is the important thing, towards light and bright future is great, do new things, learn new lessons, achieve a new place in this universe is brilliant but clinging to the past can only bring sadness, pain and stagnation in life nothing else, we need to look forward with the knowledge of the past enthusiasm of the present and a dream of future.