A chance known as life!!

A chance known as life!!

Society needs rules to stand tall and stay firm, from the dawn of civilization, from the moment that human started to swing together as a group the rules were began to be set, some basic rules, some conditions were there, then naturally rules accelerated, and now we are standing with thousands of rules and conditions all around, but why the society is not standing so firmly? Why everything is wobbly? The main element in all this the people are not happy, living is hard and just to getting by one day at a step is a constant struggle. We don’t hunt to get food or to survive we don’t migrate in every changing season, we go to shops for food, in season changes may be go to a holiday, but still the stress level is over the roof, the connection with our mind is loosing the grip more often, so why we are not so solid?

Rules, rules and more rules, don’t do that, don’t believe that, walk like this, talk like this, it’s like a virus everywhere, even breathing in by rules. But we don’t follow every rule to make our society strong, are we? Sometime we just follow some rules to keep a majority of people happy, in a society there is so many different groups, small group of people just trying to be themselves, against other groups, and with that much differences how can a single society be strong?

May be it can, different is good, variety is wise, change is very good, but keeping an open mind is awesome, may be ignore some stupid Hippocratic rules, analyze the boundaries before crossing over or stay put forever. Like being an atheist some people say is a sin and god is going to punish them because they do not believe in god, now explain to me please why the creator of the universe or the prime being will be so insecure that it will take time to find and punish a little tiny human being who does not believe him? Is it sanity? Or giving loads of money in the name of an unknown entity, but if a hungry person begs for food we just ignore and walk, so where is the sanity in that? These are all unwritten rules aren't they? We do or say what is safe not what is right. Along the way we are living in a wobbly and rocky society.

I am an Indian girl, Bengali Indian girl and from my childhood I saw a rule in front of me staring in my face even with a secure and loving and open-minded family I witnessed a rule that made me and still makes me so itchy all the time, the rule is about girls, a boy could be a painter, a loud musician a crazy dude or different things but a girl should be polite, sweet, calm all the time, and tame. Still this kind of viewpoint exists and they are the rules, there is model to act like a good girl where boys can be whatever they can be.

It is just sad to see many people many human beings to live in shackles, we all born free, smile for the first time as a free person, but with time all the rules changes us, we see our dreams slowly fading right in front of us, and most of us just settle just compromise, let go of their dreams and follow the rules till the last breath. Organization is good rationalization is better, but be happy is essential and no rule no condition can do that only the dreams and little moment can make someone happy, and for that chances should be there, equal and fair chances for trying for reaching out what heart wants, a little chance can make a person happy. Everything started to make life easier, to survive, now we should all start again to be happy to make life a memorable journey not cage, not a regret, but a first and last chance to do what is right, what is ours to do, because life is a chance, just once we get this so we should get this fair and square. 

Moving on with time!!!

Moving on with time!!!

Time is a funny thing, in the present moment the height of every emotion, pain, happiness, embarrassment just gets fade way with a little passing time, the pain and sadness can become funny and silly the seriousness of a mistake often get reduce, it is not the do over or erasing but still a little time can turn around the life, can make strong emotions easy and less complicated. It is the most awesome gift that nature or our universe can give us, I personally believe so. But sometime I feel like if there was a time machine in my backyard that will help me the most, to turn back time, change some past decisions some moments, or just take back some words, but the past is totally the maker of what we are now, as we talk, walk, feel or speak all of it is the doing of our past, those little heart breaks, little lessons of life here & there, little fun moments with closest friends ,the true nature of people around us , knowing by living the moments,  is priceless.

This fourth dimension time, is making and shaping us constantly, and developing us to a new version of ourselves in the process. Time is a natural remedy but there is some pointers, the strong emotions can fade way or can change in time, love can be lost or change to something else, nothing stays the same, and changing is a very complex thing for a normal human, naturally we don’t want change if everything is going well, but still time flows away, so the feelings changing turning, it’s like a constant battle of survival, discovering new elements inside, sometime this going and going on seems too much, some time we just need some of that precious time to stay still, anchoring to some degree and just think not change, but it never happens, time goes and so goes with it our life.

But this going and going nonstop is the only thing that making this life possible, think about a moment the most sad and dark moment of our life standing still with all that emotion inside same forever not fading or changing, our heart never could have handle that, leaving moments behind can be hard and sometime heartbreaking, but it the only reason that those moments are a little bit of us left behind in the process of our own moving on. Moving on is good, it is a medicine that we need now and then, stuck at a point is a complete waste of energy and life, it is too short to stuck in a fix point of life, allowing the time to do its work and allowing own mind to move forward is living, no one stands still, no mistake is for forever change is normal and in our heart we all know that, still moving on sometime seems hard and it looks scary but it is the only way to catch up with our most dearest friend time itself.

Where is our own Revolution?

Where is our own Revolution?

Change does not mean a shift of power to one hand to another, real change starts in mind then spread like a jungle fire and caught up with the whole society, then from the ashes, rises a new state a changed society, and that needs more than just enthusiasm, and fire and rage, the change in mind of a society needs its back story so strong that can support a radical transformation and awesome climax. Just changing the political party or changing the faith is not the answer to anything, real knowledge, real understanding and patience is all a mind needs to start a change, a whole generation has to work side by side to bring a change bring a revolution, and that is not an easy thing to do. First there should be enough rage and disappointment and an itch in brain to feel that something is very wrong with the day to day life, it is not enough for living when people feels that they deserve more deserve something new rational and timely than all of that began, then all anyone needs a little bit of flame.

It is the birth story of every change every revolution that human civilization witnessed and recorded as history, as long we remember every change starts with an idea. But one person cannot bring revolution upon the society it is a team work it is a constant inspiration and dream of many people thinking towards freedom from a stagnation, one can scream but a mass can roar, and a roar that a troubling growing country needs, a roar to warn every evil lurking in violence corruption disloyalty that the citizens are no longer hibernating, they are ready to change, they are ready to bring a new era upon them. This all story or change revolution depends on number of people and the growing itching in mind. The bliss that is ignorance, and not looking the big picture can keep us calm and help us to sleep like a baby in nights but as soon that dream will over and we can all see the real scene behind our denial and then only we can witness a new change and a new revolution of our own, then only we can be a part of history, our own history of evolving towards freedom and knowledge.