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chance known as life!!
Society needs rules to
stand tall and stay firm, from the dawn of civilization, from the moment that
human started to swing together as a group the rules were began to be set, some
basic rules, some conditions were there, then naturally rules accelerated, and
now we are standing with thousands of rules and conditions all around, but why
the society is not standing so firmly? Why everything is wobbly? The main
element in all this the people are not happy, living is hard and just to
getting by one day at a step is a constant struggle. We don’t hunt to get food
or to survive we don’t migrate in every changing season, we go to shops for
food, in season changes may be go to a holiday, but still the stress level is over
the roof, the connection with our mind is loosing the grip more often, so why we
are not so solid?
Rules, rules and more rules, don’t do that, don’t
believe that, walk like this, talk like this, it’s like a virus everywhere, even
breathing in by rules. But we don’t follow every rule to make our society strong, are
we? Sometime we just follow some rules to keep a majority of people happy, in a
society there is so many different groups, small group of people just trying to
be themselves, against other groups, and with that much differences how can a
single society be strong?
May be it can, different is good, variety is
wise, change is very good, but keeping an open mind is awesome, may be ignore
some stupid Hippocratic rules, analyze the boundaries before crossing over or
stay put forever. Like being an atheist some people say is a sin and god is
going to punish them because they do not believe in god, now explain to me
please why the creator of the universe or the prime being will be so insecure
that it will take time to find and punish a little tiny human being who does
not believe him? Is it sanity? Or giving loads of money in the name of an
unknown entity, but if a hungry person begs for food we just ignore and walk,
so where is the sanity in that? These are all unwritten rules aren't they? We do
or say what is safe not what is right. Along the way we are living in a wobbly
and rocky society.
I am an Indian girl, Bengali Indian girl and
from my childhood I saw a rule in front of me staring in my face even with a
secure and loving and open-minded family I witnessed a rule that made me and
still makes me so itchy all the time, the rule is about girls, a boy could be a
painter, a loud musician a crazy dude or different things but a girl should be
polite, sweet, calm all the time, and tame. Still this kind of viewpoint exists
and they are the rules, there is model to act like a good girl where boys can
be whatever they can be.
It is just sad to see many people many human
beings to live in shackles, we all born free, smile for the first time as a
free person, but with time all the rules changes us, we see our dreams slowly
fading right in front of us, and most of us just settle just compromise, let go
of their dreams and follow the rules till the last breath. Organization is good
rationalization is better, but be happy is essential and no rule no condition
can do that only the dreams and little moment can make someone happy, and for
that chances should be there, equal and fair chances for trying for reaching
out what heart wants, a little chance can make a person happy. Everything started
to make life easier, to survive, now we should all start again to be happy to
make life a memorable journey not cage, not a regret, but a first and last chance to
do what is right, what is ours to do, because life is a chance, just once we get
this so we should get this fair and square.
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