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Wednesday, February 13, 2019

Days with love or a day for love..!!!!


Days with love or a day for love..!!!!

"Heard melodies are sweet, but those unheard are sweeter."
― Ode on a Grecian Urn(John Keats)

It’s been a long time since I wrote something from my heart or for my heart; I was busy writing pages and pages of words for my study and not for my mind. But that does not mean that I did not think or my mind was numb. When you can’t speak or write what’s in your mind, that is the time your mind goes into overdrive. There are so many things in my mind right now that needs to be out but I can’t, not at once. So I am writing about something that is kind of everywhere now because it is the month of love!

Love..!!! Very weird feelings come to mind while speaking of it. Love is confusing, overwhelming but liberating at the same time. Love can make someone happy if only there is no expectation around it like chains. You can love as much as you want but when you start expecting many things from the people you love that is the root of sadness, heartbreak and disappointment.


Love means a sweet pain in your heart, it means smiling without any reason, it means you can be happy or stupidly optimistic without any logical reason. But then why people blame love for unhappiness and pain and suffering? Love can never hurt anyone but people can, and people certainly do hurt one another sometime knowingly and sometime unknowingly.

When we love someone and expect a world of emotions in return from them it is bound to get ugly. People are not mind readers or superpower full psychics so they can’t always understand the feelings nor understand the actions that are expected from them so that leaves to heartbreak and pain. Sometime I think about love sometime, often loves come around and make me feel things.

I am a weird person, for me love is reading a good book in a cozy corner of my home, love is traveling and meeting new people, love is spending time with people that I care about; love is staring at the star in middle of the night and thing about stories that may be happened somewhere. But one thing I never loved or liked is playing games in love. Love should be bold and free and expressive. It should never hide behind shadows; stalkers often hide behind shadows..!! Not love..!!

"Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own."

— Robert Heinlein

If someone care or love someone they should be clear and upfront about their feeling, use your words..!! There are millions of literary works those are about love so you can surely find appropriate words to describe your feelings..!! Love should be unconditional, it should never be like chains you can’t bind someone with you and call that love..!! You can love freely but make someone love you back by force or tricks or playing games…..

Tricking someone in love can badly end, everyone know about Voldemort and his loveless origins right…??? Love can be powerful and sweet and inspirational just don’t turn it into something dark and sinister and materialistic. Love is about mind and soul nothing matters when to souls finds love. Otherwise nothing matters, no feeling matters if that is based on some materialistic goals.

Love makes a person more than they are, it makes your perspective broader it teaches you that you have infinite space in your heart and love can grow without any limits.  Tomorrow is 14th February, everyone call it the day of love, though every day is for love and without love how can we live even one day?

"Love is a promise; love is a souvenir, once given never forgotten, never let it disappear."

— John Lennon