Twist & turns of life !!

Twist & turns of life !!

Before meeting anyone new unknown we normally picture an image inside our heads, about that person with the facts in hand, like after hearing a name we think that person will be kind of like that or this, but the fun thing is after the actual encounter we get the original picture, sometime it is so funny to think about the assumption that we made before. Just like this life, one thing that we plan or assume that it is going to be that, or I will feel that, but in real something completely different happens, and that is what we need actually, something unexpected shocking new, it can be bad sometime horrific but still a new experience.

But sometime we get what we imagined and that feeling is not uplifting, because the exact result of our assumption never surprises us, and we, all human beings, believe or not love surprises, some of us claim to hate it, but still unconsciously need it. What we need is not always what we want. But this logic sounds extremely stupid most of the time in our life. Because in a little moment it is not natural for us to look into the big picture or find out the real longtime consequences, we just feel the moment if it is terrible then the logic before is completely out of line.

I have witnessed same mistake being done over and over again still hoping for a new result, not understanding the course happened before just crying and trying to hold up the same feeling, it hurts every time, still some people don’t look for a new question a new perspective, just like rat running in a fix circle. It is may be irritating for people watching the events happening and the person complaining, but the pain that the person is feeling is unparalleled, but no other except he or she help that to change.

Why doing the same thing over and over and hopping for a new result? Is it human nature? But no many people change, got wise with time and every experience do different things, but why some people don’t change? Are they stupid? Or just incapable of changing, why can’t they evolve mentally? But stay in a same psychological prison forever, may be they just never stop assuming and guessing the outcome, they just don’t get surprises from life or nor recognize it to change the course. It feels sad to witness such people turning and walking on a forever crossroad, not able to help them. May be there is no surprise in that; we cannot help anyone if they don’t need it. We can just walk on our road keep turning into new turns and get brand new scene and experience something unexpected.