Little bit of both!!

Little bit of both!!

What a person should be in life? A hero, good, kind hearted, wise, sensitive, brave, leader like, or a villain bad, wicked, schemer, brutal, sneaky like a dark opposite of the hero. What should one be? Obvious answer will be of course, a hero, even an antihero will say it, but in a good story or novel or in a movie we need some good and evil, side by side parallel in the platform for a solid climax, a dark character only can bring the hero into light, so little bad and good both needs to be present to make a strong storyline. Now what about the story of our lives? We are much more complex than any novel or story character, we have many layers, we don’t live in a black or white world, all we live in shades, different type of shades, nothing concrete, so why be just a hero, why not little bad sometimes, why not little bit of both.

There are many good people in this world, but I always witnessed that they are being used by different kind of people, in their back the kindness that they have shown was called as stupidity; they were fools to others only because they were nice, sweet and simple. They never understood the schemes and plots and the lies, because they were not sneaky enough to understand them, so at the end the good was foolishness for many people, so why be totally good and innocent and nice, why not play some games sometimes, why not treat people as they are, not as we are, little bit of plotting in answer of sneaky people, to understand the lying and manipulation we need to be little manipulative to do the right thing, keeping the peace, and to make someone calm sometime needs little manipulation, little scheming,  may be that is diplomacy in life. But it is hard for the person who is doing all this; it is hard to keep the balance in the amount of right and wrong or in good and evil.

Balance is everything, little misbalance can create chaos but keeping it together and being a little bad and good at the same time can make a strong story and a good climax, little bit of both is may be the answer for many problems.