Sacrifice when just a hobby!!

Sacrifice when just a hobby!!

Sacrifice is a big and noble word indeed, but is it every time wise or even unselfish or even a right thing to do? I witness a family get ruined just because the head of the family sacrificed everything for other people and made his family suffer and after the all bad things still darn proud of it. So was it worthwhile, when your family was suffering and has been destroyed just you can feel proud about yourselves, and tell others that you did nothing but sacrifice every passing moment, so was it selfless or just a way to fuel the huge ego without any common sense and natural instinct inside? It is human issue and for that very much complicated how we should act towards others? Should we sacrifice for others and do nothing for ourselves is it a right thing to do? May be it is, a wise and noble man can sacrifice every bit of his life in sacrifice and for honor, but it is a right thing when you are not planning about it and not want to brag about all the work you have done, then only then it can be call a proper selfless act.

Intentionally acting like a wise man and noble man every moment trying to ruin own life just to feel good and proud latter while bragging about it is just sad way to waste ones’ life, and if that includes ruining own children’s life along the way is far less close to being virtuous. Human mind is a complex organ to begin with and different people have different kind of error in their brain and we are all very expert in twisting words and morality around our own desires, so planning and want to be noble get us nothing, but ultimate realm of destruction and sadness, but to some people sadness is luxury, finding an obstacle in life and sit in front of that and just complain about it is ultimate doing of many people, but not go around the obstacle, then name it sacrifice and blame everyone and feel sad for ever. This type of doing can depress a bunch of people, the middle of all man, then the family and friends all has to suffer with that person in some way.

But the saddest thing of all that person losing everything just to be proud but in the end cannot feel good because sacrifice was not his natural instinct, but an act that that person worked very hard to pretend, and lost all the pure happiness and nice moments along the way, a code to act good and noble is not the solution, not everyone can be self-sacrificing saint and they don’t have to, being yourselves being little selfish is not bad it is a nature of common man, naturally self-sacrificing people don’t even feel that they are sacrificing for anyone, they just do every day, without any proud or ego trips, just be happy to do good naturally without planning.

If someone cannot be happy by their own nature how can they spread happiness to others, one has to smile before trying to make other smile. “Sacrifice” is a big word; we all do some of that while living but if that is just a hobby to fuel the ego then it is a pretty big word just to indicate internal trouble for bunch of different people, in that case we just have to sacrifice the sacrificing nature and just act normally without planning a character just to live it as it is.